HOW TO DEAL WITH MEAN AND JEALOUS PEOPLE [HATERS] ?

 Hello everyone! I hope you all are doing good😊. So today i would be telling you guys how to deal with some people who are directly or indirectly your haters. As all these points given below are based on my own experience so i would be telling this on my own experience. So first let's know what is the main purpose of haters?

MAIN MOTTO OF HATERS-:

The main motto of haters is to show you down and poor in the society you are living in. They are basically jealous of you and wants to become like you so indirectly you are their 'IDOL' or 'INSPIRATION'. So always feel like 'yes i am an inspiration' because when you will start thinking this you will feel superior as well as more confident. First they see and then they copy. They don't want to see you higher than them so they try to make some kinds hindrance in your life. You have to deal with them smartly and not give up, no matter you are alone or you are with someone else. When you start believing yourself, you become the most powerful human. The identity of haters is that they act like your very GOOD FRIEND but are more dangerous than your ENEMY. A person who acts like your best friend is actually dangerous than a person who directly shows antagonism towards you. 

HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM?

1. JUST IGNORE THEM-:

Ignoring your haters is the best way to deal with them They are like barking street dogs. If you keep going on your own way without giving your attention to them, a time will come when they will stop barking, so ignore them. Never give any reaction to them because they are not worthy of it. They will try their best to lower down your public reputation but in the end all their efforts to show you down will hit them back in the form of 'KARMA'.

2. WORK SMARTLY-:

  Working smartly is actually better than working cleverly. There is a huge difference between words 'SMARTLY' and 'CLEVERLY'. Working 'SMARTLY' means to figure out what your situations are and dealing it accordingly in the most efficient way whereas working 'CLEVERLY' means working in short and expecting lot which i think isn't more effective. Most of the haters are clever and that's the reason they never succeed in their so called 'PLANS'. Working smartly needs patience. It may be hard in the beginning but believe me it's way more powerful.

3. TRUST YOURSELF-:

Once you start trusting yourself everything will go fine. Because once you start trusting yourself, you start fighting for yourself, you don't need anyone to fight for you. Trusting yourself is the best way to love yourself. Many people will throw stones on your path but if you are strong those stones will break into pieces once you start moving forward without caring about anyone or anything.

4. SMILE AND RELAX-: 

haters?.. so what!!..

i like the tactics:  " relax and smile - it annoys everyone" 😁

also in some situations, you can go counterintuitive and offer the mean person some help.. like "oh, dear, no happy person would intentionally treat others badly.. did something bad happen to you today? do you need some help? it's ok, you trying to adjust to your situation, but you can't let your frustration on others.. if you need to talk or some help, i am here".[ FOR THIS WONDERFUL POINT I WOULD LOVE TO GIVE CREDIT TO MY WEVERSE FRIEND😊]

Once a legend said "HATERS GONNA HATE AND PLAYERS GONNA PLAY" which means haters gonna hate you anyway no matter how good you are but the real player keeps on focusing what they want to do and in the end they always win.

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HOW TO STUDY SMARTLY😎

 Hello everyone! I hope you guys are doing well😄. So today I will be sharing some study tips which i feel are useful for every student as exam season is already going on in India. So let's get started

1. USE STICKY NOTES-:

Using sticky notes while studying is really useful as it helps to take short notes which you can study as a summary of a chapter. It helps not only to take short notes but also to add a useful point in between of the chapters so that it mesmerizes you while you are going through the chapter.

2. HELDING STUDY SESSION FOR A LIMITED TIME-:

Having study sessions helps you manage your time for every subject and it ensures that you don't waste too much time on a particular subject and forgetting about other subjects. For this purpose you can use a study timer.

3. HAVING SHORT BREAKS-:

  After studying for some time it is advisable to take a short break because if you won't take short breaks after studying for hours you will get frustrated and become stressful and studying will become a burden for you. FOR EXAMPLE-: if you studied for 1 and half hours, after that take a break for 10 minutes and ensure not to use mobile phones or any other gadget.

4. KEEP YOUR MOBILE PHONE OR ANY OTHER GADGET AWAY FROM YOU-:

 Before you start studying, first ensure that your mobile phone is away from your eyes because it's one of the major cause of distraction. One thing you can do and that is to keep your phone in another room to avoid a contact with your phone. so it's better to maintain a distance from your mobile phone while you are studying.

5. AVOID SHOWING OFF ABOUT YOUR STUDIES-:

I saw many people showing off that they study for hours to other people and i felt that people who actually do this are seriously dumb and it actually seems dumb in real life so please avoid showing off regarding such things.

6. AVOID STUDYING ON BED OR A COMFY PLACE-:

While studying we should make sure that the place we are sitting on should not be such place where we can lay down. Better study on a desk because studying on desk increases you focusing power and it also ensure that you don't fall asleep.

7. CONTINOUS PRACTICE AND REVISING-:

after you get home, revise all the stuffs which have been taught by your teachers on that particular day and keep on practicing it because the more you practice the more it becomes clear to your brain and it stays for a long period of time.

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