HOW TO DEAL WITH MEAN AND JEALOUS PEOPLE [HATERS] ?

 Hello everyone! I hope you all are doing good😊. So today i would be telling you guys how to deal with some people who are directly or indirectly your haters. As all these points given below are based on my own experience so i would be telling this on my own experience. So first let's know what is the main purpose of haters?

MAIN MOTTO OF HATERS-:

The main motto of haters is to show you down and poor in the society you are living in. They are basically jealous of you and wants to become like you so indirectly you are their 'IDOL' or 'INSPIRATION'. So always feel like 'yes i am an inspiration' because when you will start thinking this you will feel superior as well as more confident. First they see and then they copy. They don't want to see you higher than them so they try to make some kinds hindrance in your life. You have to deal with them smartly and not give up, no matter you are alone or you are with someone else. When you start believing yourself, you become the most powerful human. The identity of haters is that they act like your very GOOD FRIEND but are more dangerous than your ENEMY. A person who acts like your best friend is actually dangerous than a person who directly shows antagonism towards you. 

HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM?

1. JUST IGNORE THEM-:

Ignoring your haters is the best way to deal with them They are like barking street dogs. If you keep going on your own way without giving your attention to them, a time will come when they will stop barking, so ignore them. Never give any reaction to them because they are not worthy of it. They will try their best to lower down your public reputation but in the end all their efforts to show you down will hit them back in the form of 'KARMA'.

2. WORK SMARTLY-:

  Working smartly is actually better than working cleverly. There is a huge difference between words 'SMARTLY' and 'CLEVERLY'. Working 'SMARTLY' means to figure out what your situations are and dealing it accordingly in the most efficient way whereas working 'CLEVERLY' means working in short and expecting lot which i think isn't more effective. Most of the haters are clever and that's the reason they never succeed in their so called 'PLANS'. Working smartly needs patience. It may be hard in the beginning but believe me it's way more powerful.

3. TRUST YOURSELF-:

Once you start trusting yourself everything will go fine. Because once you start trusting yourself, you start fighting for yourself, you don't need anyone to fight for you. Trusting yourself is the best way to love yourself. Many people will throw stones on your path but if you are strong those stones will break into pieces once you start moving forward without caring about anyone or anything.

4. SMILE AND RELAX-: 

haters?.. so what!!..

i like the tactics:  " relax and smile - it annoys everyone" 😁

also in some situations, you can go counterintuitive and offer the mean person some help.. like "oh, dear, no happy person would intentionally treat others badly.. did something bad happen to you today? do you need some help? it's ok, you trying to adjust to your situation, but you can't let your frustration on others.. if you need to talk or some help, i am here".[ FOR THIS WONDERFUL POINT I WOULD LOVE TO GIVE CREDIT TO MY WEVERSE FRIEND😊]

Once a legend said "HATERS GONNA HATE AND PLAYERS GONNA PLAY" which means haters gonna hate you anyway no matter how good you are but the real player keeps on focusing what they want to do and in the end they always win.

                                                                      THANK YOU💜